How to BREAK THE ICE
by Bryan Daly
A simple way to feel comfortable meeting new people.
Many times we are not sure how to open a conversation so we avoid one.
Have you ever felt awkward in social situations, networking events? This is a great way to warm up to others. This is a simple method that I have used for years and I have made many new friends this way.
Start with a warm, firm, friendly greeting and a smile. Firm but never squeeze a handshake too hard. Make it about them not you. Treat them like a you would if they were a guest in your home.
We want to NETWORK not sell.
The difference is selling serves a relationship and networking builds a relationship.
Learn about others so you can help THEM -“Givers ALWAYS Gain.”
This works well in many social functions as well.
Think of the acronym FORM
“Always in good F.O.R.M.”
Family
Occupation
Recreation
Message (what is important to them)
Family
Do you live nearby? Do you have family in the area?
Are you originally from _____? How long have you lived here?
What do you like the most about ____?
Occupation
How did you get started in the ____ business?
What do you like most about your profession?
What is the strangest or funniest thing you have seen?
What is a good referral for you?
Do you have a business card?
Recreation– Golf etc.
What do you like to do? Any hobbies Spare
Message- Say positive things about the group and brag about OTHERS
TEN FEEL GOOD QUESTIONS
from Bob Burg (BobBurg.com)
1. How did you get started in the ____ business?
2. What do you enjoy most about what you do?
3. What separates your company from the competition?
4. What advice would you give someone just starting out in the ___ business?
5. What one thing would you do with your business if you knew you could not fail?
6. What significant changes have you seen in your business over the years?
7. What do you seen as the coming trends in the _____ business?
8. What was the funniest experience you have had in your business?
9. What ways have you found to be the most productive to promoting your business?
10. What one sentence would you like people to use in describing your business
Always a Great question
What is a good referral for you?